Because I Love My Bride

My lovely bride and I have been married for 13 1/2 years (I think).. Our sex drives have always been a little different. Recently things have changed for the better and I am continuously amazed by her. Her sex drive has slowed and I wrote these words to her when I knew her self esteem was low. I presented this to her along with a slideshow demonstrating that you don’t have to be a size 5 or less to be attractive. I stumbled upon MH a couple weeks ago and since then my bride has become alive and I love it. Love the site and I thought I would share the words I wrote several months ago.. Hope you enjoy it.

The reasons I love you my bride

• I love you for always loving me. I know that I drive you crazy sometimes, but I can always tell that you truly love me. I have been in love with you since we first started dating. You had “it”. By it I mean the something that I told myself I could do without up until I met and got to know you. It also means my heart, mind, and soul. I have been totally fascinated with you since I saw your gorgeous blue eyes and long hair sitting on the couch in that youth room in the church. The other night the boys and I were looking for a geocache outside that church and I told them that no treasure could ever equate to the treasure I had found inside the church.. They seemed confused until I told them that it was that very building that I saw and first met you.
• I love you because you have given me my 3 sons. Even though they drive us crazy. They always amaze us and make us laugh. I cannot imagine life without them. I know that we have 3 amazing and special young men and I’m thankful everyday that they belong to us. Without you I would not have these 3 boys that I am so proud of.
• I love you my bride because you are stubborn. I cannot imagine being married to someone who didn’t have a spine. Your thoughts are always respected around our home and for good reason. I know I tease you sometimes about your stubbornness, but in the end it’s a quality that I have always loved about you. When you have something to stand for you stand for it. We are both stubborn and I truly think that is a good thing. I see some couples where one or both people have no backbone and I have to think to myself that it would be boring.
• I love you because you are not selfish. I see how your Mother and Brother act and I thank the Lord that you didn’t get that quality. There have been times in our marriage that I think you are being selfish. These thoughts are generally temporary and the end results include me realizing that you aren’t selfish, but it is I who is.
• I love you because you encourage me when needed and ground me when needed. I have done some amazing things in life but let’s be honest. Sometimes I don’t make the right decision. I believe this is due to me being a risk taker and an adventure seeker. No matter how out there some of my ideas are you support me. I think we are both this way and that is a great thing for our marriage. I was quite taken back when I read a text message from you a couple months ago saying thank you to me for being supportive. Right back at you babe. Two unsuccessful businesses, one lost job, one year of student teaching, these equate to tough times. We have made it through some brutal hill climbs and in the end we have each other. When I hear Dave Matthews sing his song “You and me together” we can do anything, anything together. I can’t help but think about us due to what we’ve been through and how well we have handled it. I am simply amazed and in awe of what we have. You have had a huge hand in this and I am truly grateful.
• I love you because you tolerate me and my craziness.

Reasons part two

In this section I want to discuss the next reason I love you and give you an insight into the reason I am the way I am.. I hope you enjoy!

The next reason

I absolutely love how beautiful you are. I have been in love with your eyes since day one. I have grown to love every inch of your body. This is due to the fact that your body has birthed our children, gave them nutrition, gave me pleasure and given you pleasure. I feel closer to you when our bodies touch than any other time. I believe this is due to the fact that I have so many great thoughts about your body as stated above.

The reason I am the way I am

As you know my desire to be close to you the way God intended is extremely strong. I have decided that I should share one of my dreams from last night with you and how detailed it is so that you will know the reason my desire is so strong. I have dreams this detailed quite often and I hope that you will allow me to share them with you on occasion. As you can tell my dreams mix both real life and fantasy.

Dream from September 2^nd

I had a dream that you and I took a two day vacation to the mountains without kids. It was summertime, the mountain air was crisp and refreshing. We had several activities planned for the day and we started out with mountain biking on some trails. You were riding in front of me wearing your skin tight bike shorts and sports bra that was snug fitting. You were riding in front of me and I have to say I loved the view from 2^nd place. We came to a creek after a fair amount of time riding. We were both sweaty, thirsty, and exhausted. The sunlight exaggerated the sweat running down your face and in between your breasts.

I was astonished and watched a couple beads of sweat make their way into your sports bra. We decided that we should refresh ourselves by splashing water on ourselves. I was wearing my bucket hat and I decided to put it on your head after filling it up with the cold mountain spring water. You laughed and smiled in surprise. As you turn around I can see your nipples erect and firm through your sports bra. This was an added bonus to seeing you smile and laugh. After a short chuckle and you calling me a brat we head off to our next stop. With it getting close to lunch time we stop and get a bite to eat. We are sitting next to each other in a small romantic bistro. In my mind I remember you telling me that  woman who wear underwear under their cycling shorts is a sign of a novice. As we cool off and wait for our food to come I cannot stop thinking about the fact that you are sitting beside me with nothing on under your shorts. I start to rub your thigh and I love the way your shorts feel on my fingertips. It really starts to turn me on. I can tell you know that it turns me on by the look you give me. It is a somewhat seductive “not now” look. As we finish up lunch we decide to go back to the cabin. When we enter the cabin I give you a hug and caress your lower back, I feel your skin on my fingertips and it turns me on. I want to slowly take your sports bra off but you push me away and tell me that I smell outdoorsy.

I mention that we take a shower together and you oblige. While we are in the shower together I wash your back I can see the soap running down your back and onto your rump. I love to see your naked backside and the curves it is blessed with. I slowly wash your legs and feel your strong calf muscles. Being kneeled down to wash your legs I can see through your legs just enough to see fresh water running through your pubic hair. It makes me think about how lovely you look from the front. I turn you around and start to wash your front side. All the soap suds run over the top of your breasts and get split into two paths by your firm erect nipples. I can’t take it anymore so I reach out and start making small circles all around your nipples with my finger tip. I can tell it feels good because they get firmer and I can feel all the little bumps in the darker area around your nipples. I really want to feel your nipple on my tongue so I start to make slow tight circles around your nipple on my tongue. Every once in a while I run my tongue directly over you nipple and it causes your back to tighten up involuntarily. We decide that we should move out of the shower and you have a towel wrapped around you but I can just barely see your southern beauty through a triangular gap in the front. I walk up behind you and slowly undo your towel. I slowly caress your inner thigh and move inwards.

I can feel your clitoris start to swell on my finger tips. I slowly run my finger down you from the top. I can feel the warmth on my hand and everytime I move my hand I can feel your back tighten and your hips put pressure against my hand. I can feel your wetness on my fingertips and I decide that I want to please you with my tongue. I slowly start to lick up and down your hot wet body, I split your v lips with my tongue and I can feel your clit throbbing on the tip of my tongue. I wrap my arms around your thighs and pull you closer in. Everytime I speed up a little you thrust your hips into my face. I can smell your womanly musk and I can taste you. I speed up and I can hear your breathing get heavy, your back arches higher and higher, you press harder into me. I can feel your legs to start shaking uncontrollably and I know that you are in pure bliss. I want to hear the sound I love, you giggling and saying ok stop, stop. That tells me that you have just had the simplest, most pure form of pleasure possible. I slowly pull myself up next to you and rest my head on your chest I can feel your rapid heart beat. I position myself between your legs and I can feel the warmth, wetness, and throbbing clitoris on the tip of my manhood. I slowly start to slide my hardness into you.

It’s so warm and snug fitting that it is hard not to lose control right off the bat. I feel your breath on my ear and it almost sends me over the edge. In my quest to make the moment last longer I ask you to get on top of me and you do. I can feel your pelvic bone grind against me. Every time you rock your hips back and forth I struggle to not lose total control. I can feel how soft your back is and I rub my fingers up and down your stretched out spine. Shortly thereafter, I can feel my face and legs going numb. I  know that I’m losing control.

You rock harder and deeper and I can’t take it. Pure bliss. You collapse on top of me and we both smile, chuckle, and I can feel both our hearts racing in excitement. We decide to end the evening snuggling on a couch under a blanket listening only to the crackling fire.